Parenting, Education and Children - Fostering Openness to Learning in Children
What kind of beliefs foster openness to learning and what kind of beliefs create a sense of fear and limitation?
Surprisingly, beliefs such as "I am smart" or "I am talented" or "I am gifted" tend to create limitation rather than openness. When children are told, "You are so smart" or "You are so talented," they have a tendency to get attached to the approval of being smart or talented and may become fearful of failure. They may decide that if they put forth great effort toward learning something and they fail, that this will prove that they are not as smart or as talented as their parents or teachers believe them to be. They may learn to attach their worth to being smart or talented and may see themselves as a failure if they fail at something.
On the other hand, children who are praised for EFFORT rather than ABILITY (see "Mindset" by Dr. Carol Dweck), learn to value themselves for their openness to learning and their efforts toward their goal, rather than for achieving the goal itself. These children get excited by the process of learning itself and experience a sense of worth in the effort, growth, and learning, rather than their sense of worth being attached to the outcome.
source: Ezine Articles
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